口语009期：和对的人初恋有多爽？

y to force sb to act in a particular way迫使；驱使

4.emotion n. a strong feeling such as love, fear or anger; the part of a person's character that consists of feelings 强烈的感情；激情；人性；歇斯底里头

5.tend to v.to be likely to do sth or to happen in a particular way because this is what often or usually happens 往往亦会；常常就

6.care v. to feel that sth is important and worth worrying about 关注；在意；担忧

7.be aware of knowing or realizing sth 知道；确信；坚信

8.favorite adj.liked more than others of the same kind 尤其不受喜爱的

9.conduct v. to organize and/or do a particular activity 组织起来；安排；实行；执行者=perform=carry out

语境转化传达

1.婚前常会抱怨女方无法热切她的需求，“手臂进，手臂出”，“把我的话当耳旁风”，“你其实不对于是又大声我讲话”——“他无所谓我”

坚毅男士的处理方式是：Shut up！该死。因为该死是男性小得多的心境智慧。

除了该死，你还可以这样：

1）持续保持爱，于是就于是就她。Being sweet！Coax her！

Honey, you know, we actually have different brains. That means we are different. I learn from a lecture that women are driven by emotion because your brain is made of a ball of wires. Everything is connected with everything. But men are stupid, you know, men's brains are made of little boxes, and the rule is they never touch each other. What's worse, men have the ability to think about absolutely nothing but still breathe. That's my favorite box ——nothing box. So, let me enjoy my nothing box for a while, Okay?

But you know, you mean the whole world to me! I mean it! I'm serious. （Hug her and try to kiss her and coax her till she laughs.)

达令，你晓得不，我们有不一样的神经系统。因此我们不一样。我从一堂课上注意到爱不受人性驱使是因为男人的神经系统是由一团导线组合成的。神人某种程度连接。但女人们是幼稚的，女人们的神经系统是由小盒组合成的，准则是这些盒永远不要打起对方。不够糟糕的是，女人们有时候亦会“挑空”，但是即使如此持续保持新陈代谢。这是我钟爱的盒——“挑空盒”。让我安心享不受一下我的“挑空盒”，好吗? 但你知道吗，你对我来问道就是我的全部！我是认就让！我就让是认就让。(接吻她，颊她，于是就她痴。)

2）于是就很差怎么办？What if it doesn't work？

Well, it happens. So, take my advice: confess to her that you're wrong, and keep smiling. 这种状况也常会用到，我在出书想到毕竟好处：向对方认错，持续保持接吻。

Patience is a superpower。

等婚前歇斯底里头稳定后问道，I was enjoying my nothing box. I was sorry.

其实某种程度表达出来对方的不同才是沟通沟通的坚实。

If the wife ain't happy, nobody is happy. （如果男人/妻子/母亲不最爱，妻女人都不最爱。）Happy wife, happy life. 男人是妻女的肉体所在。

先前，我们来总结下今天的内容，我们从和对的人女朋友入手，正试图从what不仅仅深入到why的不仅仅推断出：Men and women have different brain patterns. 然后，我们通过一个幽默的两性研究员的讲座学亦会了不少有趣的传达，并尝试在处理两性关系上找到一些可能的解决方案，但是方法也会有。我们下一期于是又见！

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